Individuation: developing the individual from the universal.
Reciprocity: exchanging things with others for mutual benefit (giving & receiving).
Parity: the state or condition of being equal, especially regarding status.
Individuation allows the experience of reciprocity.
Absent parity, there can be no reciprocity.
Ergo, equality in ego-separation is a condition precedent to a shared (giving and taking) experience of satisfied desire.
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